At the same time I also know that some guys use their introversion as an excuse to not stepping out of their comfort zone. The only thing you can do to find out if you don’t do certain things because of shyness or because of your personality traits, is to be 100% honest with yourself.Whenever you are about to do something you can simply ask yourself if you would also do it if you would have no fear at all.Let me show you on the basis of what I mean: When I was a desperate virgin I always told myself that I will never be able to approach women, because of my personality.I talked myself into believing it, until I finally had the balls to ask myself if I would approach a smoking hot girl if I wouldn’t be afraid. ”Once I learned how to seduce women I was able to approach every woman, no matter how beautiful she was.
To shed some light on the introverted dating experience, we've translated some of their frequently used phrases for you.
Great, but before I am going to tell you exactly how you have to organize your dating life when you only leave your house once a year, I have to make a confession…No, I am not pregnant, I am not gay and I am not a pervert…oh wait I am actually a pervert. I love books, I absolutely hate loud clubs and I can’t stand it to be in a conversation with more than three people.
What I have to confess is way more terrible than everything I just said (including the fact that I am a pervert). Instead of feeling ashamed or hopeless because of my condition, I am actually pretty glad that I am not one of those extroverts who run around like hop balls all day long.
Besides being able to provide you with a lot of free advice, the fact that I don’t enjoy being surrounded by hordes of people who kill me with their ridiculous small talk helped me to attracted amazing women.
I know that it sound counterintuitive, but I personally regard my introversion when it comes to meeting and dating beautiful women.