For a fat girl who was told her entire life that she was undesirable or unloveable, the idea of meeting someone anonymously and having them fall for my personality, and then having the reveal — that’s the fat girl dream. I was lying about being 18-years-old to use the service.
And I didn’t realize at the time, but all the men [using this service] who worked had to pay. So I went to living in the suburbs with mostly immigrant families to dating white-collar businessmen at 17-years-old. Since I was fat, these other parts of my personality had to be extra.
And then they’ll whip around and say, ‘Well you’re fat anyway.’ So you first appreciated me, and then the moment I denied me, you lashed out."Women can be tough, too.
Those who seemed nice in their profiles turn out to be total fuckboys after the first date.
But plus women often have an entirely different experience with dating than women who are considered straight-size. "Before I got into this relationship, I’d just found the fat acceptance movement and body positivity.
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